Old Flames, Old passions, Exes????

What a touchy topic?

In recent times, as I begin to reflect on all my old flames I have realized that not all of them have been as bad as I thought it was at the time. Most of us leave a relationship saying, that the other person did something wrong or we did something wrong.

My friend and I were talking about this, the better relationships are those that involved two friends...

I have had some pretty bad relationships ones where the guy has been nothing but a compulsive liar and others where the guy has been nothing but an asshole. The trend however, is that those guys have been the ones that I have known for only a short while and jumped into a relationship because of looks or other such materialistic things.

I dont want to be depressing in my blog anymore as people tell me I am .... So I m changing the topic

My fondest memory of one of my boyfriends (who i wish not to disclose) was when we were talking about how our future would be. He said, "Rashmi I can see ourselves sitting on a couch in England ten years from now. Its snowing outside with the wind howling and we ll be sitting inside with a small lamp and I will be lying in your lap while we read together" .... How hopeless romantic were we or should I say nerdy??? Today many years after that line was told I realized that was the memory that I held closest to me ....

The best relationships are the ones that are between friends though be careful the line's real fine. You cross it and the girl will be in the "Only Friends" zone. I am sure all of us have gone through that and dont want to be there.

I know I know ....its not fair but when has life ever been FAIR?

The good memories will always be with us. We hold it close to us. I hold it close to me. I would never let go off them.